Anonymous asked:
Stop calling yourself a dyke or fag if you mean it in a derogatory sense (which I believe you do). You are a lady who likes ladies, and there is NOTHING wrong with that. In fact, there is everything right with it. You are a gorgeous human being, and your sexual orientation doesn't have anything to do with that.
Oh my…I deeply apologize if I offend you when I call myself that.
I don’t want be lame and pull the excuse of “I was raised that way”, but…uh, well, it’s true! I guess I just see the words as…just that, words. I know it’s hurtful to a lot of other people, and I need to learn that before I shoot my mouth about myself and using those terms.
I am aware there’s nothing about my sexual orientation (to which I still have my doubts and times of self-loathing, but that’s a different story for a different time).
But thank you very much for telling me this, anon. I will be more aware of what I say.
And…thank you so much for the comment. I really appreciate it.